Become an alpha male

by John Alexander

Are you a man with a squeaky voice? Or maybe you've got a face only a mother could love?

Well, whatever it is, if you're worried and upset about your physical flaws - and that undermines your confidence in how to seduce women - then I've got good news for you. You can learn how to become an alpha male.

Not only can you eradicate those flaws, you can turn them to your advantage. I'll explain how by bringing up an example of three guys who were very successful players in their day.

So here's a trivia question for you: What do Steve Tyler, of Aerosmith, the late rapper Eazy-E and Curly, from the Three Stooges, all have in common?

They all had voices so high that if they had wanted to, they could have talked to

someone on the phone and that person wouldn't have known they were speaking to a man.

It would have been simple for all three to have hung their heads and turned into beta males without a clue how to seduce women.

In fact, I've coached many men who have low-self-esteem and limiting beliefs when it comes to things like their voice, their looks, their genetics, etc. You name the trait, and there's always somebody who uses that trait as a negative belief, which sabotages their chances of picking up girls.

However, despite their high-pitched voices, Tyler, Eazy-E and Curly were all masters in how to seduce women, thanks to a simple technique which turned that 'flaw' into a trademark that made them unstoppable when it came to picking up women.

It's a simple technique I learned when I studied Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), and it will help you in the art of seduction as tremendously as it did all three of those men.

To develop the confidence of my students, I have them learn and apply this concept. The concept is called reframing.

Here's how reframing works. Basically, you take every negative belief you have and turn it into a positive.

For example, you might find it's to your advantage not to be handsome. Women

expect good-looking guys to talk to them, so when you're displaying the confidence to talk with them, their guards will be down.

They won't expect you to try to pick them up. That gives you a window of opportunity to display your confident, alpha male personality.

Being short can allow you to gain rapport much more easily with girls than taller guys can. Tall men have a psychological communication barrier a lot of the time because they're literally talking to a lot of girls (who tend on average to be shorter than guys) from a different level.

So remember, it's not your flaws that get in your way. It's your limiting beliefs in how to seduce women that do so.

For a woman to be attracted to a guy, the man's confidence level is one of the most important traits he can have. You can become an alpha male by turning your flaws from weaknesses into traits that set you apart from the bland, ordinary guys.

When you become happy and comfortable with all your traits, through the technique of reframing, you'll become unstoppable with your self-confidence. Gain that kind of confidence, and you'll magnetically attract girls to you, becoming a master yourself in how to seduce women.

John Alexander is author of How To Become An Alpha Male, a seduction success guide for men

Women will want you once you know this little secret. Check out

Guy Gets Girl

Many men haven't a clue about how to pick up women. Give yourself

an edge.

Go to

The Art Of Approaching Women