Getting back together
First steps in getting back together
According to T W Jackson, creator of The Magic Of Making Up, there are certain 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls, text or Instant Messenger, if you're serious about getting back together.
He advocates the use of curiosity and self-interest - "two of the most powerful forces in the human mind."
So, let's look at what you can say that works nearly every time as you approach the first steps of getting back together.
In a friendly tone: "Hi Cindy, it's John. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
That uses both curiosity and self-interest. Cindy will not be able to resist. She will be thinking: What did I do? What does he appreciate? And she feels good because it is a positive message, signalling that you really are interested in getting back together.
Before you call you need to do the set-up, which is figuring out what she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing but it needs to be plausible.
But, more importantly, before you call, says T Dub Jackson, you need to have an underlying strategy like he maps out in The Magic Of Making Up system.
If you apply this technique for getting back together with no underlying strategy and they call you back, you can do more damage than good if you do not handle it correctly.
"What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is more important than getting them to return your call," says T Dub.
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