Making eye contact

Learn how to make eye contact

by Thundercat, author of The Art Of Approaching Women

I want to reveal a neat trick involving eye contact that I've developed to make it easy when approaching women.

Men are frequently too nervous to approach a woman because of the huge amount of uncertainty involved.

Think about it. What runs through your head when approaching women?

Am I her type?Does she have a boyfriend?Will she find me attractive?Is she too busy to meet anyone.Will she be receptive to me talking to her?

I'm sure you can think of a hundred more things that run through your mind when you see an approach opportunity come your way.

If you get scared or nervous when this happens, it's because of one thing. UNCERTAINTY.

You don't know how the girl you want to approach is going to respond. So you're worried because the outcome MIGHT be negative.

Well, despair no more, because with this eye contact trick I'm going to share with you, you'll never have to worry about a negative reaction again when approaching women.

This eye contact process is so simple that anyone can do it! And it's a 100 per cent fear-free tactic.

Ready for it? Good, because here it comes. It's ...

THE EYE CONTACT OPENER

We all know that eye contact is important, but something funny happens when we make eye contact with another person. We become COMPELLED to respond to them in some fashion.

When it comes to approaching women, you can use eye contact to find out whether she's open to meeting you.

So here's what you do...

The next time you see a woman you want to meet, LOCK your eyes on her! Seriously, just stare at her eyes, even if she's not looking at you.

When people are out and about, they will usually look around to keep aware of their surroundings. This is an unconscious thing we all do. Eventually, the woman you're locking onto will look around to scan the area.

When she comes to you, her eyes will invariably meet yours, and you'll be locked in eye contact. When that happens, simply smile at her.

If she smiles back, guess what? She's open to you meeting her. If she doesn't, then move on in your approaching women efforts.

When she does smile back, say "Hi!" And if she responds, you're in!

I like to use this approaching women tactic in low-key situations, like grocery stores, coffee shops, book stores, etc. But the eye contact opener can work just as well in bars.

Often , after you smile, the girl herself will say "Hi!" and then the rest is easy.

The next time you go out approaching women, do this eye contact with every woman you encounter.

Lock your eyes onto them and see what happens. I guarantee, you'll be surprised by the results.

If you're looking for even more tactics and techniques that are proven to work to help you meet loads of women, check out my book, The Art of Approaching Women.

There is no other book out there that focuses on nothing but how to overcome your fears and meet women.

Check it out right now - The Art Of Approaching Women.

With the help of my book, you won't even have to use the Eye Contact Opener! You'll be able to walk up to any woman you want and meet her right away! 

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