How to get a date

by Joseph Matthews

Women will frequently say one thing while meaning another. And this can cause problems for men trying to figure out how to get a date.

For instance, a girl might say: “I only date men with dark hair." And the next time you see her out on a date she's with a blond guy.

Many women say they respond to one thing, when they actually respond to something else. I call this phenomenon Girl Speak.

A big problem guys have when trying to get a date is that they don’t know how to properly translate Girl Speak,so they end up taking what the girl says literally.

But this is a major mistake when you're consideing how to get a date.

Women rarely say what they actually mean. And because of that, they respond really well to guys who know how to interpret what they are really saying.

Take me for instance. I’m a fat, bald, ugly guy. Definitely no winner in the looks department.

But I’ve dated women who say they aren’t into fat guys.

I’ve dated girls who were much younger than me. One of my more recent girlfriends was 20 years old. I’m 30. This girl wasn’t interested in dating an older guy, yet for me she made an exception.

I dated one girl who only liked black guys. Me, I’m white as white can be. But again, the girl made an exception.

If I had taken their Girl Speak literally, I’d have failed to fathom out how to get a date. But I know the key to by-passing the most common Girl Speak objections.

So how do I do it? Well, its fairly simple - don’t try to change their minds, change their emotions.

When a girl tells you about a specific thing she finds attractive, you have to understand that’s not a logical attraction trigger she’s sharing with you.

When a girl tells you something like “I like to date tall guys,” she’s not telling you she’s attracted to guys who are tall.

She’s telling you she’s attracted to the way tall guys make her feel.

Normally, if you ask a girl why she likes tall guys, she will share with you that maybe she feels safer with tall men. So in that case, she’s looking to feel secure with the guy she’s dating.

You don’t have to be tall to make a woman feel secure! You just need to know how to trigger that emotion inside her. That's the key of how to get a date.

So let’s say you want to get a woman attracted to you, no matter what you look like. Do you know how to make a woman feel that kind of attraction?

The key is making her feel fun when she’s around you. If you can make a woman feel fun, chances are she’ll feel attracted.

Why? Because attraction is all about feeling good!. And if you can create some good old-fashioned sexual tension, she’s going to be sexually attracted to you.

If you want to learn how to get a date and create sexual tension with any girl, and never get rejected, you owe it to yourself to take a look at my book, The Art Of Approaching Women.

Or, just continue to be fooled by Girl Speak and never figure out how to get a date with women you want.

The choice is yours.