Get a girl to like you

While men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of his personality.

And this can be a big help when you want to get a girl to like you.

A ideal man is an alpha male who's confident in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants out of life.

Ironically, this means the best way to get a girl to like you is to make her feel she has earned you. In other words, you need to play it cool.

To get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of high value, never from a position of neediness, says John Alexander, author of How To Become An Alpha Male. 

"The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead ,you should be a challenge for her," he says.

In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also get a girl to like you by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women as you can.

Also date as many women as you can ... don't restrict yourself only to dating 'that one special girl'.

The last thing you want to have going through your mind when you're around that special woman is 'I have this girl! She's irreplaceable!'

Having an abundance of women in your life will solve that problem.

Also, whenever a woman sees that other girls are attracted to a man, she too feels attraction, says John.

"Psychologically, this is known as the 'social proof' phenomenon, and it's much more powerful in women than men. Hence, an ideal strategy to get a girl to like you.

"Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in action."

John points out that it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong for her but you must always remind yourself there are lots of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like. So play it cool.

If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, that gives her power over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.

So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.

So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible ... those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to like you.

John Alexander is the developer of How to Become An Alpha Male, a seduction success system for men. Discover the excitement and pleasure of having gorgeous, horny women automatically drawn to you like a magnet.  

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